Sunday, December 2, 2012

What Matters Most



September 26, 2012

The yartzheit candles have sputtered and burnt themselves out. Yom Kippur is done. The Book of Life is closed.

I missed the Kol Nidre service because R. was home for her 18th birthday dinner, and leaving her felt wrong. I figured G-d would understand that.

Her birthday dinner was a feast that ended with the four of us huddled in a hug in the middle of the dining room. There were giggles and guffaws and a few tears. Nothing beats that.

In the end, my kids’ health and happiness is what matters most. This is what rights me.

I have prayed for a sweet year and taken stock and promised to turn myself around; to be more patient, gentle and compassionate, slower and more forgiving. 

More important, I have repeated thanks for my children, being as healthy and solid as they are.

There is no greater fortune in this world.

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